Call me silly, but.....

[pesky 1]

How do u send a privet message?

[Valmont]

Look at your own post. On the lower right corner you see a handfull of envelopes. The most left one is to send private messages.

Now go to a post of the person you wish to send a m to. And press on his envelope.

I bet there are more ways but this is the method I use.

- Val -